What We’re Most Excited About Living in Spain
After writing about the mental load of this move, I felt like it was important to balance it with something lighter. Because while there is stress, paperwork, and decision fatigue… There is also so much that we are genuinely excited about living in Spain.
This move isn’t just about logistics. It’s about vision. And when I pause long enough to imagine what daily life could look like, the excitement returns very quickly.
Slower Mornings
One of the things I am most excited about living in Spain is the rhythm of the mornings. I picture walking to get coffee instead of rushing out the door with it in a travel cup. I imagine streets that feel alive but not frantic. Sidewalk cafés. Conversations that aren’t squeezed between obligations.
Right now, mornings often feel like a launch sequence. Alarm. Coffee. Emails. Errands. Appointments. Everything is scheduled and optimized.
When I think about living in Spain, I think about less rush and more presence. I imagine waking up without that constant hum of urgency. Even if we still have responsibilities, I hope the pace feels different. More human. Less mechanical.
That vision alone keeps me excited about living in Spain on days when the to-do list feels overwhelming.
Time With Family
Another reason we are so excited about living in Spain is the opportunity to be more intentional with our time. In the U.S., life can easily become productivity-focused. We measure success by output, by busyness, by how full our calendars look.
We want something different.
We want meals that last longer. Conversations that don’t end because someone has to rush out the door. More shared experiences and fewer distractions. I’m not naïve enough to think life will suddenly be perfect, but I do believe environment shapes behavior.
The idea of building a life that prioritizes connection is one of the deepest reasons we are excited about living in Spain. We’re not chasing escape. We’re chasing alignment.
Raising Our Dog in Spain
Of course, Bane is part of this vision too.
When I picture what I’m most excited about living in Spain, I see him walking beside us on cobblestone streets, exploring new parks, sitting at outdoor cafés while we sip coffee. I imagine longer walks, more outdoor time, and a lifestyle that naturally includes him.
Preparing him for this move has been one of the most detailed parts of the journey, but it’s also reinforced why we’re doing this. We want a life where daily movement, community, and outdoor living are normal.
I’m excited about living in Spain not just for us, but for him. A new environment. New smells. New routines. And hopefully, a life that feels just as rich for him as it does for us.
Redefining Success
This might be the biggest shift of all.
Part of why we are excited about living in Spain is because it represents a redefinition of success. For years, success looked like stability, growth, bigger spaces, more accumulation, and constant forward motion.
Now, success looks different.
It looks like margin in the schedule. It looks like mental clarity. It looks like meaningful work instead of endless hustle. It looks like quality over quantity.
We are not moving because we failed at something. We are moving because we are evolving. And that evolution requires us to question old definitions.
Living in Spain feels like stepping into a version of success that is quieter but deeper.
What We Hope Changes in Us
At the core of everything, what I’m most excited about living in Spain is who we might become because of it.
I hope we become more patient. More present. Less reactive. Less rushed. I hope we learn to appreciate simplicity instead of constantly seeking expansion.
I hope we build community intentionally instead of accidentally. I hope we become braver because we chose discomfort. I hope we become softer because we slowed down.
Being excited about living in Spain isn’t just about scenery or food or travel opportunities. It’s about growth. It’s about stretching beyond what is familiar and trusting that something meaningful waits on the other side.
Yes, there is stress. Yes, there are unknowns. Yes, there will be hard days.
But when I zoom out and think about what we are building, I feel deeply excited about living in Spain. Not because it will be perfect, but because it will be intentional.
And right now, that feels exactly right.


